So last fall I was doing physical therapy (PT) as a sort of “pre-hab” to see if I could avoid having arthroscopic surgery on the labral tear on my hip. I also started my MS program. I still managed to go to weight watchers but didn’t achieve my goals. I ended up deciding to go off Zoloft in September 2014 to see if that would help with my weight loss. Took one class two nights a week. I did manage to lose a a few pounds, even after having my surgery in February.
My spring semester was really busy: classes four nights a week, plus working full time, doing PT and spending time with my husband and two girls. I managed not to binge too much. But then my therapist started mentioning that I seemed depressed and anxious and recommended going back on meds. I was really scared to because I feared I would gain weight. I tried Brintellix (vortioxetine) , which isn’t supposed to affect your weight, but I felt worse. Really stressed out with all the kids’ whining. Then school ended and I had to go home every day instead of getting to go to class and stimulating my mind. I signed up for some free online classes to try to get ahead. I also applied for a few new jobs and did one round of interviews before pulling out because it’s not a good fit. I ended up officially quitting weight watchers because I only went a few times in the Spring semester, and I feel so stressed about money. Thinking of seeing a financial counselor.
I ended up stopping Brintellix and trying Viibryd (vilazodone). I’ve been on it a month and now I’m at my highest non-pregnant weight since 2011: 158! I’m thinking of joining a Binge Eating or Eating Disorders support group to try to improve my body image. But then part of me just wants to lose weight so I feel better about myself. I constantly feel judged. By my co-workers, friends, strangers, in-laws. What can’t I like me the way I am? Should I just go back to Weight Watchers? I’m crying all the time, and officially you’re not supposed to do Weight Watchers if you have an eating disorder.
But I really want to lose weight before my 20th reunion in 2016. I also hate being so fat and ugly in all our family pics with the kids.
I’m trying hard to not feel like this year has been wasted, but that’s kind of what I feel like…